Proverbs: Sticks and Stones

Proverbs: Sticks and Stones

Lessons

Our words hold immense power—they can heal or harm, build up or break down. The book of Proverbs teaches us the importance of using our words wisely. Lying damages trust, relationships, and even our sense of self, making honesty essential for a life of integrity. Gossip, though tempting, is destructive, tearing apart friendships, families, and communities while offering only a false sense of superiority. Similarly, unchecked anger fuels hurtful words that can cause lasting damage. Instead of letting anger control us, we must learn to channel it in a way that promotes growth and righteousness. By committing to truth, rejecting gossip, and managing anger wisely, we can use our words to bring life and encouragement to those around us.

Lesson 1

Words can be Weapons

I’ve heard it said, “Sticks and stones may break our bones, but words can never hurt me.” This cliché statement is catchy, but it isn’t true. Sticks and stones bring temporary pain, but words can hurt for a lifetime. Words can hurt us. Words can haunt us. Words can consume our minds. Sticks and stones can break bones, but words can break hearts. At the core of this message is one central truth — your words have power. Let’s explore how the book of Proverbs addresses the power of our words.

Lesson 2

Why Do You Lie?

Lying is a dangerous habit that can wreak havoc on your life. Lying can crush relationships, make your life difficult, and lead to an identity crisis. If you want to be a friend that people trust, a good role model to those who look up to you and a shining light for Jesus, you need to commit to a life of honesty.

Lesson 3

Gossip: Tasty Little Morsels

Gossip is toxic. It has the power to destroy friendships, families, and even churches. Gossip serves a quick fix for our desire to feel superior. We must drop this harmful habit. You will never raise yourself up by bringing someone else down. The opposite is also true. Giving up gossip reveals strength. Let’s explore why God detests gossip and how we can eliminate this harmful habit from our lives.

Lesson 4

Anger: Fighting With Fire

Anger is the driving force behind some of the most cutting words you’ve ever heard. Whether it’s politicians glowing red in the face during a debate or families spiraling into conflict during a game of Monopoly, anger is a powerful emotion that breaks hearts and unravels relationships. So how do we learn how to harness our natural anger to push us towards holiness over harm?